Elizabeth
Dalloway’s bid for freedom may make her feel liberated
from the social constraints of her upper-class British family,
but in the narrative she is transformed from a competent young
woman into a blank sculpture, the figure-head of the raging
omnibus. This moment in the novel is remarkable for the ways
in which it so accurately identifies the complexities of women’s
lives and the ways in which female freedom and liberation have
often translated into new, but no less confining, roles for
women.
Almost
one hundred years after the publication of Woolf’s seminal
novel, the circumstances of women’s lives may be different
-- but, in her new book, noted British feminist Natasha Walter
argues that the complexities of female experience still persist,
and are perhaps even increasing. Walter, who has claimed in
an interview that “no one has ever done feminist polemic
better than Virginia Woolf” (The F-Word), has recently
published Living Dolls: The Return of Sexism, a book that grapples
with the phenomenon she calls the hyper-sexualization of contemporary
British culture.
The
author of 1998’s The New Feminism, Walter is
a well-known British feminist and journalist, as well as the
founder of the international charity Women for Refugee Women.
Her debut book, published while she was an editor at Vogue,
was controversial for its assertion that women should move away
the issues of their private lives, “how women made love,
how they dressed, whom they desired” and focus instead
“on achieving political and social and financial equality.”
Ten years later, the political and economic challenges are no
less daunting: there are not significantly more women in positions
of power in Britain and the gendered wage gap has only increased.
Still, Walter has significantly revised her outlook: she confesses
in her introduction, “I believed that we only had to put
in place the conditions for equality for the remnants of old-fashioned
sexism in our culture to wither away. I am ready to admit that
I was entirely wrong.”
In
Living Dolls, Walter revisits the state of British
feminism by addressing the very issues of sexuality that she
eschewed in her earlier work. The book is divided into two sections:
“The New Sexism” and “The New Determinism.”
The first chronicles the rise of hypersexual culture in Britain
-- from pole-dancers and prostitutes to pornography and promiscuity--
and the ways in which these cultural changes have been couched
in the old feminist language of women’s choice and liberation.
The second half of the book shifts gears to investigate the
simultaneous rise in United Kingdom of a belief in intrinsic
differences between the sexes, beliefs that have historically
justified the relegation of women to the domains of the home
and kitchen. Walter connects the two by arguing that the rise
in hypersexual culture embodied and promoted by women is not
a sign of feminist progress and increased lifestyle choices
for women, but is rather a sign that the deep imbalances of
power in British society have only been strengthened and exaggerated.
Walter argues that female sexual liberation in the twenty-first
century, like Elizabeth’s daring omnibus ride, has actually
resulted in the rise of a culture that seeks to degrade, objectify,
and limit women and the roles they are permitted to play in
British life.
Much
of the critical attention for Living Dolls has, for
obvious reasons, focused on “The New Sexism,” in
which Walter recounts interviews with a number of women, including
‘glamour’ model Cara Brett; Anna Span, the most
famous and prolific porn director in the United Kingdom; and
an 18-year-old girl “Bella,” who boasts 22 sexual
partners. This journalistic style is effective. It gives the
reader a glimpse into the lives of individuals who are living
out this hyper-sexualized culture in a variety of ways. Walter
opens her discussion of “Babes” and glamour modeling
in British culture with perhaps the book’s most widely-quoted
story, about a spring night in the Mayhem Club in London, where
a number of young women compete in a “Babes on the Bed”
contest for the privilege of being photographed for lad’s
magazine Nuts:
The
competition continues with “girl-on-girl action,”
and the winner, displaying “her sequined thong riding
precariously on a shaved crotch,” is crowned. The incident
is not an isolated one, and, while some women do express discomfort
-- “it was a bit degrading, to be honest” -- others,
such as Cara Brett, defend the activities and the industry they
support. Cara’s own glamour modeling career, Walter writes,
has been her ticket to success, the means by which she has managed
to “fulfill her ambition of being famous without having
any obvious talents.” Cara’s friend Helen, a law
student at Leeds University, defends Cara’s day job by
saying: “Women are now in much more dominant roles in
society, and they can say, you know what, I’m doing this
for myself. It’s something to be proud of.”
The
use of this feminist rhetoric of choice, however, is not a sign
that these young women align themselves to the movement in general.
In the very next paragraph, Cara expresses her frustration with
the feminist movement, which ultimately complicates Cara’s
career choice. Though she, like many of the young women Walter
encounters, takes some of her cues from the women’s movement,
the sex industry is really only partially about the kind of
choice Helen articulates. It becomes quickly evident that Cara,
not as academically inclined as Helen, sees her career as a
partially-nude model as her only ticket out of the rural home
in the Midlands where she grew up.
It
is symptomatic of the cultural shift that inspired Walter to
write Living Dolls that Cara’s story is not particularly
unusual. A feminist rhetoric of choice, Walter argues, has been
seized by Britain’s overly sexualized society and is being
used to justify cultural trends that undo years of work by women’s
activists. Most of the women in Living Dolls are quick
to acknowledge the role of agency in their lifestyles -- be
it prostitution, modeling, or sexual promiscuity -- but Walter
argues that the variety of choices presented to young women
in Britain has only decreased since the publication of her last
book. For women like Cara Brett, Walter argues, sexual culture
is increasingly perceived as the only path to fame, wealth,
power and even autonomy.
If
women see this kind of sexual commerce and promiscuous behaviour
as their only option, Walter asks, how accurate is the language
of choice and liberation that surrounds these activities? In
the case of Cara Brett and others like her, Walter seems to
have a fair point. Most of the prostitutes, lap dancers, and
strippers who Walter interviews begin with a defense of their
work and emphasize their role in choosing this lifestyle, but
further conversation almost always reveals less pleasant realities.
One young woman (Ellie) moved to London to pursue a career in
acting, and fell into lap-dancing when she was having trouble
making rent. Ellie initially didn’t feel that she faced
any negative stigma upon entering this line of work, since pole
dancing and lap dancing have become increasingly common in British
life and popular culture; but, even as she found the realities
of her work degrading and humiliating, she had equal difficulty
acknowledging those feelings: “I think that people who
have done it have something very big invested in pretending
that it is all right, because to say anything else is embarrassing.
The reality is so not what the perception is. If you say it’s
really degrading, and you did that, it says so much about you,
or it feels as if it does. But it is degrading.” Today,
Ellie acknowledges that there is little difference between lap
dancing or pole dancing and prostitution, though the lap dancing
clubs that have sprung up across the UK at unprecedented rates
make their money at promoting an image that is both more innocent
and less degrading than ‘real’ sex work.
These
anecdotes are interesting for the windows they provide into
the opinions of (select) young British women on issues like
pornography, prostitution and multiple partners. In the cases
like that of Ellie, where the women themselves articulate the
ways in which an overly sexualized culture compromises their
opportunity, autonomy and sense of self, Living Dolls
is particularly compelling. In her anxiousness to demonstrate
the pervasiveness of these complex issues, though, Walter sometimes
goes too far.
Bella,
for example, the 18-year-old girl with 22 sexual partners, never
acknowledges that her actions participate in something that
is ultimately degrading to her and other women. Instead, she
battles the idea that her promiscuous behaviour might be related
to some kind of dark past: “She told me about how a male
friend had come to see her the previous night and got drunk
with her. ‘Somehow we got on to how much sex I had. He
was trying to convince me that I had had a traumatic childhood
and that was why I had so much sex. I had to keep saying no,
I actually am happy. I like having this much sex. I love it.’”
This, of course, may be nothing more than a tactic of denial.
However, Walter’s insistence that the behaviour of young
women like Bella contributes to confining roles for women undermines
her analysis in several ways. In cases such as Bella, Walter
oversteps the bound of her otherwise provocative and relevant
work, perhaps in an effort to overcompensate for the revision
of her previous arguments in The New Feminism. Many
feminists may get behind a movement that questions how much
choice women who enter into prostitution or pornography really
have; few, I think, would be willing to police women’s
personal sexual lives, particularly in cases where those women
are safe and open about their level of emotional commitment.
In
these passages, Walter’s method seems designed to exaggerate
the realities of the given situation. Her chapter “Lovers,”
in which Bella’s story appears, she quotes the statistics
on sexual activity in Britain: “The average number of
lifetime partners increased between 1990 and 2000, from 8.6
to 12.7 for men and from 3.7 to 6.5 for women . . . those under
twenty-five reported higher numbers of partners in the past
five years, with 14.1 per cent of men and 9.2 per cent of women
reporting ten or more.” According to these statistics,
Bella’s story still places her in the extreme minority,
despite Walter’s disproportionate attention to it. Furthermore,
Walter goes to extraordinary lengths to demonstrate a real cultural
shift that demarcates the behaviour of young girls like Bella
from feminists past. She looks at the journals of Mary Wollstonecraft,
Emma Goldman and Anais Nin -- all considered fairly promiscuous
feminists in their day -- to demonstrate a long-standing feminist
commitment to emotional intimacy in all sexual relationships.
This tactic, though, only serves to render her argument far-fetched,
even irrelevant.
The
experiences of these historical feminists are hardly representative
of the times in which they lived (and, in some cases, represent
questionable role models for young women today). If the central
issue guiding Walter’s research is a decreased number
of real choices for young women, changing notions of how and
when a woman can enter into consensual sex should not necessarily
be cause for fear, distrust or judgment. In cases such as this,
Walter seems so anxious in Living Dolls to distance
herself from the controversies of The New Feminism
that she sometimes fails to carry forward the positive messages
of that book. Women, and those invested in the women’s
movement, should be interested in how we can better regulate
industries like prostitution and sex clubs to protect women
from the violence and abuse they often encounter in those industries;
personal sexual choices, though, remain just that -- personal
choices -- and Walter’s eagerness to judge them in relation
to the sexual economy undermines the work of generations of
feminists to give women freedom and autonomy in their private
lives.
Many
of these problems are the result of Walter’s journalistic,
anecdotal approach to the issues: the subjects she chooses to
interview ultimately determine the messages of the first part
of Living Dolls. Men make few appearances in the book,
and the lack of a male voice is certainly a glaring weakness
of the overall analysis. Girls like Bella and her friends lament
how “soppy” the men they encounter are, but, later
in this section, Walter interviews another young woman, Esther,
who is pursuing a career in sex education because her unwillingness
to be sexually promiscuous has caused her to be increasingly
socially isolated. She says, “I want to be with a man
who sees sex as an intense experience, a unity, and people just
don’t know -- sex has become completely devalued.”
Of course, the “soppy” men Bella casts aside may
not possess quite the intensity Esther seeks in a sexual and
emotional partner, but the general lack of male voices in Walter’s
narrative limits what we can possibly know about the male response
to this hyper-sexualized culture and the ways in which men's
lives may also be adversely affected.
Where
the journalistic approach most seriously compromises Walter’s
argument, though, is in the second section, “The New Determinism,”
in which she discusses the increased focus, especially in the
media, on determinist explanations for gender differences. Few
reviewers have paid particular attention to this part of Walter’s
project: it is admittedly a slower read and lacks the controversy
of her earlier stories. It is also, though, less familiar territory
for Walter, who is a journalist by trade. In this second section,
Walter assumes a more structured methodology that still contains
a number of interviews with a variety of experts. These forays
into science offer interesting perspectives on male and female
differences in abilities and intelligence, and chronicle several
early childhood and other experiments.
Walter
criticizes the media and popular gender writers for cherry-picking
scientific perspectives that fit into their predetermined arguments;
yet, her own approach and confessed lack of scientific expertise
or experience casts equal doubt on the range of perspectives
that she presents. Her citation of experiments and scientists
is inconsistent throughout, and she regularly revisits the same
few scholars and scientists to demonstrate her points. Without
being an expert, without much experience in scientific review,
it is difficult to weigh in on the actual validity of the experiments
and scientific research she cites: this kind of analysis is
unquestionably valuable to her project, but the second portion
of this book might have been more effectively written by a collaborator
-- someone with direct scientific experience and a more authoritative
voice.
By
necessity, Living Dolls could not encompass all aspects
of the modern feminist debate and its implications for current
British (and, by limited extension, American) culture. In some
ways, though, the book suffers from a too-myopic lens. Walter,
for example, spends no time discussing the implications of her
thesis in regard to bisexual or homosexual women, although these
issues clearly influence lifestyle choices for heterosexual
women: Bella, it is learned, has slept with equal numbers of
men and women -- a point on which Walter spends little time.
Similarly, her long discussion of the Babes on the Bed contest
in the Mayhem Club never acknowledges the role that lesbianism
plays in contemporary female sexuality. Those women were not
asked to interact with any of the many men who pay to watch.
Rather, their sexual appeal is judged by their willingness to
take on lesbian behaviors, with no indication that any of these
women are interested sexually. The increased appeal of pretend
lesbianism for the voyeuristic pleasure of men is an important
aspect of the hyper-sexual culture that Walter seeks to discuss
in Living Dolls, and analysis on the topic is noticeably
absent. The scene in the Mayhem Club speaks not only to objectification,
and to a woman’s lack of control over her own perceived
sexuality, but also to a deep-seated homophobia among those
young men (the removal of male sexuality entirely from the spectacle).
This
lack of diversity in Walter’s interview subjects limits
the variety and breadth of voices, despite that they are incredibly
relevant to the debate and are representative of the sexual
lives of British women. By virtue of exclusion, Living Dolls
discounts the experiences of lesbian women as well as heterosexual
and homosexual men, relegating them to the periphery of this
debate when, in fact, a diversity of sexual preferences and
experiences are needed at the center. As a result, an opportunity
to put forth a truly radical feminism is missed, one that takes
Walter’s scientific arguments and uses them to push the
very definitions of sex and gender.
Walter
is admittedly a journalist and not a cultural theorist, but
issues of Tran sexuality and gender-neutrality are becoming
increasingly prominent in popular culture, and represent a fundamental
and culturally powerful challenge to the sexual culture she
describes. In a recent issue of music magazine Q, for
instance, the gender-bending pop star Lady Gaga appears topless
in glamour-model styling wearing a large black strap-on. The
photograph caused one feminist reporter at The Guardian
(a former publisher of Walter) to publicly revoke her support
for Lady Gaga, claiming that the image “tick[end] . .
. the boxes that constitute the mainstream image of sexy.”
For
many young women today, even those who share many of the same
ideals and values as a long history of women’s rights
activists, feminism has become a movement and a stance from
which they wish to distance themselves. Though few of the women
Walter interviews self-identify as feminist, they have taken
on much of that movement’s rhetoric, and their sexual
liberation (whether good or bad) has its roots in the work of
generations of activists to give women choice and control over
their bodies.
Walter’s
work is a meaningful, if flawed, contribution to this dialogue.
The end of Living Dolls, a chapter appropriately entitled
“Choices,” profiles ten individuals and organizations
continuing the work for positive change for women across the
world. As an activist herself, Walter is a part of this movement,
and her challenge to engage this ongoing struggle and debate
is one that should be recognized. She writes in this closing
chapter: “. . . it feels to me as though we are at a crossroads.
We can see a groundswell in anger and solidarity that may, if
enough people join, lead to real cultural and political changes.”
In this sense, Living Dolls does not lead us very far
from its predecessor, The New Feminism -- hopefully, Living
Dolls will encourage this kind of positive activism; hopefully
the conversations that result will challenge feminists to push
further than the omnibus, and demand even more from our society.
Living Dolls fails where Walter seems too interested
in removing herself from her claim that women should be more
interested in enacting real social, economic, and political
change; if the feminist movement is to continue to have relevance
for the young women Walter interviews here, it must tackle both
the changes Walter once demanded in The New Feminism and the
complicated issues of choice and sexuality that face women today.
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