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gender-based income redistribution with honour and dignity


PROSTITUTION

 

Editor's Note: The interview below contains sexually explicit language and is intended for mature readers.

The authors of the interview were not able to provide Arts & Opinion with any contact information, citing the para-legal nature of their work and its financing.

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QQ: Let’s start at the beginning. Why this interview?

SEX WORKER: I need someone, the media, to help me, us (I belong to an organization) with my agenda.

QQ: Which is?

SEX WORKER: I want to make the case that certain women, especially intelligent women have a duty to themselves to become prostitutes. The option isn’t for everyone, but depending on a woman’s political passion, it’s an option that more women would exercise if the potential, or the positive aspects of prostitution were better known. From day one, the profession of prostitution has been negatively defined by males for males.

QQ: Why should an intelligent women want to become a prostitute?

SEX WORKER: Men have always held power over women: at first physically, then politically and economically. With their power, they have used women for their own ends, for their own pleasure, exploited them for their labour. To this day men earn 30% more then women for doing the same work. Whether this is fair or not is to miss the point. Men are physically more capable than women in every respect except one: WE CAN MAKE LOVE ALL DAY LONG AND MEN CANNOT. So if throughout history men have used their ‘natural’ physical advantage for their own ends, which includes the systematic exploitation of women, women should be encouraged to use their one physical advantage to their own end. As a political act, as an economic consideration, as an act of liberation, I want to encourage some of us women to become prostitutes, and to be proud of the fact because being able to make love all day long is a natural, god-given-power that provides us with the means to correct the economic injustices men have subjected us to throughout our history.

QQ: How does becoming a prostitute, one of the most frowned upon professions in the world, liberate women?

SEX WORKER: Let me explain or rather let the numbers explain. I charge $100 for a 30 minute session. During a typical session, and I’m being generous here, the average time a penis is inside my vagina is 3 minutes. Therefor, for every hour of penetration I earn $100 x 20 penetrations = $2,000. x 7/hours/days/ = $14,000. x 5 day/week = $70,000. x 42 weeks/year = $2,940,000. The numbers speak for themselves. After 42 weeks of being penetrated, I will have earned almost 3 million dollars, which tells a very interesting story of the relationship that exists between a woman’s strength and a man’s weakness. Men use their physical superiority for their own ends, to make a economically better life for themselves; women should be encouraged to use their physical, which in this case is sexual, strength for their betterment. Call it another form of taxation or gender-based income redistribution.

QQ: I find your facts misleading, self-serving. Penetration is only one aspect of a 30 minute session.

SEX WORKER: Of course. I’m only making a point here. But this is the real point, and I’m talking about real time now. I charge $100 a session, which means I earn $200/hr. x 7 hour = $1,400 day. X 5 days/week = $7000 week. X 42 weeks/year = $291,000 per year. If a physically strong man can earn millions playing football, basketball, why shouldn’t a mentally strong, politically motivated, intelligent, attractive woman be able to exercise her physical powers which can earn her as much 300,000 per year. Why, instead is she made to feel humiliated and ashamed of her natural ability? This does not make sense, and my goal is to set the record straight and undo the male generated fiction that a woman who practices prostitution is by definition an object of scorn.

QQ: Why do you say men are weak, when what I think you mean is that men are more easily aroused than women?

SEX WORKER: I say you are weak because you can’t say no to your desire. Men risk years in prison for following their sexual predilections, they risk contracting all sorts of sexual diseases because they can’t say no, they risk their marriages and relationships because they can’t say no. The fact of the matter is that you give us billions of dollars per year because you are weak, because you cannot say no.

QQ: Why should a women be proud of being penetrated by 1000ds of strangers over the course of year, of selling sexual favours for money?

SEX WORKER: I’m calling for women to be proud of their god-given sexual superiority over men, a superiority that is two-fold: that we can make love all day long, and that we can control our sexuality more than men. As a rule, when women get horny we don’t patronize prostitutes, we don’t consume pornography, we don’t rape, we’re not sexually deviant. Men are all these things and they use their political and economic power to turn us into objects of ill repute for doing what they wish they could do. Believe me, if men could fuck all day long, that’s exactly what they would be doing. Don’t you think it’s a bit ridiculous that we are categorized as tramps, tarts, whores, sluts, for doing exactly what men wish they could do?

We prostitutes are your invention. We exist because you are weak. What’s incredible is how you have successfully managed not only to turn us into objects of scorn, but worse, you have convinced other women to buy into this prejudice.

More than being slaves to your desire, you are slaves to your envy. You envy us because we are sexually superior, and to get back at us for our one power over you, you turn us into objects of ill-repute. A man who plays around is a Don Juan, or playboy, an object of envy and admiration. A women, for doing exactly the same thing, is called a whore, a tramp. This has to be one of the biggest lies generated by men for men, and our goal is to expose the lie for what it is, and encourage more women, especially needy women, to take advantage of their natural strength and man’s natural weakness and become prostitutes and be proud of it.

QQ: You don’t seriously think men envy women because they can’t lie on their backs all day long?

SEX WORKER: Let me tell you something about just how much men envy and hate women. I would say about between 5 and 10 percent of my clients request The Golden Shower, where they ask me to pee on them. Have you ever thought about why a human being would want to be peed on?

QQ: They’re obviously sick.

SEX WORKER: What’s disturbing is that they ‘are not’ sick, but they are so resentful of a woman’s sexual superiority that it becomes intolerable to the point where they will do almost anything, especially if they have the ‘extra’ money, to humiliate a woman, to make her compromise her sexual superiority. We all know what going to the bathroom is all about. It’s something we have to do and we would rather do it alone, in private. If a woman is at her strongest when she is sexually desirable, she is at her weakest, sexually least attractive, when she is going to the bathroom. So what does it tell you about the mindset of the man who so badly wants to humiliate a woman, bring her down into his sewer, that he actually pays to be peed on for the satisfaction of humiliating her, to expose her in her least sexually attractive state. So in answer to your question, yes, many men hate women for their natural sexual superiority.

QQ: Why do you go along with such a practice?

SEX WORKER: It’s great to be paid for taking a pee, something I have to do anyway. But don’t get me wrong. I know who I’m dealing with: someone who hates women, who at any time could become violent.

QQ: What kind of sex do you have with these types?

SEX WORKER: These are people who are profoundly screwed up, who want to be normal, who want to be told they’re normal – ‘so going to the bathroom is perfectly normal’ I tell them, and then, ‘if you’re comfortable with it so am I. And anyway, who’s to judge what’s normal,’-- and they seem to believe me. Part of what turns them on is that they don’t need a desirable women to get them going; it’s only after they see me pee on them, when I’m least desirable, do they get excited.

QQ: How have the new wonder drugs like Viagra changed sexual practices and politics?

SEX WORKER: From time to time I receive clients who have no right to be sexual: people who have abused themselves for many years or are in such bad health they should be in the hospital or in long term care. I’m sure they use Viagra. My more experienced colleagues tell me that they receive a lot more middle-aged and older men than before, which means that men are remaining sexually active longer, which makes it easier for us to earn more money, which, let’s face it, is empowerment. Because most of us would rather deal with older men, I would say Viagra is good thing, and we’re making more money from it than Pfizer.

QQ: What are you going to do with all this money?

SEX WORKER: I’m part of a political organization which consists of 20, mostly university educated prostitutes. We already have several million dollars put away; our target is 8 million which we’ll hit by the middle or 3rd quarter of next year. Part of that money will be used to open up a school to teach women why they should take pride in becoming prostitutes; because it’s their strength, their heritage and there isn’t a good reason why they shouldn’t take pride in making a spectacular living. We want to teach women that men, and men alone have decided that it’s better for an attractive women to earn minimum wage doing menial work instead of working as a rich, influential and politically active prostitute. This is a huge and unacceptable lie, and its days are numbered. We are dedicated to changing the mindset that turns a woman against herself, that makes a woman blame herself for men’s weakness, that makes her ashamed of her sexual superiority. Some of the money will be used to lobby the powers-that-be to legalize prostitution, to make it a reputable profession. The time has come to make a woman’s prerogative politically viable, to practice and take pride in exercising our natural sexual superiority, and to show man for what he is: sexually inferior to women and a slave to his envy and vindictiveness. We all know of the existence of houses of ill-repute; what the world has to be taught is that men and only men live there.

QQ: One final question. Does your family know about your work? Are you in a relationship with anyone, and how does your work affect your relationships?

SEX WORKER: I come from a traditional family. My parents have had nothing to do with me for a long time now. My 2 older brothers are quite supportive. My boyfriend of 3 years is proud of what I do, is proud to be with me at all times, and makes sure that everyone we meet knows about what I do, and where he stands. Males friends, strangely enough accept what I do somewhat easier than my female friends.

(Laughing) You see how you men have got it all figured out. You not only put us down, you’ve recruited other women to your cause of blaming the woman for man’s weakness. We know that attitudes aren’t going to change overnight; that we are up against 1000ds of years of tradition and brainwashing. But every change starts with a beginning, and we are it.

QQ: Thank you for this interview. We should do this again in a year from now?

SEX WORKER: Let me check my agenda (laughs).

Artwork©Mady Bourdage
Title graphic©www.ozy.com

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COMMENTS

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Endoparasitic-reddet
I have been a Pro Domme and PSO/Cam Girl for 10 years I have pissed on guys hundreds of times and talked about pissing on guys via online/phone sessions probably thousands of times.
None of them have wanted golden showers because that is when women are the least sexually desirable and they are trying to humiliate her like that, to compromise her sexual superiority.
Every single one of my golden shower bois fetish lies in that they crave humiliation for themselves or they developed a watching woman pee fetish in childhood/early puberty.
It doesnt even make sense. The guys are getting pissed on. They are getting filthy and being degraded. I could see if she was talking about wetting fetishes being something that takes away a women's sexual superiority- but she specified golden showers. Not wetting. Completely different context.
The whole interview left a bad taste in my mouth, but she is talking out of her ass here. She has nothing but contempt for her clients and has no clue about the actual psychology of the fetishes she is engaging in. Or she has never actually given a golden shower and is LARPING

user-submission@feedback.com
The SW in this interview has terrible misandrist opinions and little knowledge about what she is talking about re:motivation for golden shower fetish.

user-submission@feedback.com
This person isn't a sex worker. Don't give their shitty article any more views.

user-submission@feedback.com
Omg she is SOOOO inspiring! I think I want to be a prostitute when I grow up! I love her!

from Mary P.
I am a single working Mother of two teenage daughters, struggling to pay the bills, to pass to my children the values in which I was raised. An article like the one you published, which is available to everyone on the Internet, that encourages girls like my daughters to become prostitutes is your shame. SHAME ON YOU.

from Llayn Basiao
Quoting from the interview with a sex worker: "I want to encourage some of us women to become prostitutes, with the means to correct the economic injustices men have subjected us to throughout our history."

This is one of the most stupidest things I've ever heard of . . . to encourage women to disgrace themselves their dignity. The so-called economic injustices is past us now. Now, women are making a way for themselves in the world but not through PROSTITUTION.
If she was as intelligent as she claimed she would have been smart enough to know how she's at the lowest point of her life right now. Coming from a traditional family, if she had listened to bible stories as a child she might have remembered that God designed one man to only one woman AND vice versa.
In conclusion I hope she enjoys her 'well-earned' money.

fashunsmart2007@yahoo.com
I think if you like it I love it. I mean no one has a rite to judge anyone and I'm referring to the other to negative commenters. Honey do your thing. I'm becoming a beginner lady of the nite as my home girl put and I'm nervous. Any words of advice and encouragement? Please and thank you.

user-submission@feedback.com
Good for you! I don't see any harm in it honestly. It's good money and it's no different than a guy getting drunk at a bar and doing his best trying to have sex with every woman in there. We cook, clean, take care of kids etc. for men why shouldn't women get paid for it?

user-submission@feedback.com
I'm not a prostitute and I honestly don't think I could ever do it, but I still don't think people should be prejudice towards the fact. It's your own body and it's your choice.

user-submission@feedback.com
This girl is obviouly sick! How the hell are you going to open a school to teach women how to be prostitutes? What is there to teach? Why should you be proud of having sex with a complete stranger and putting yourself in risks of getting diseases ? This women is the definition of a true whore.

user-submission@feedback.com
The school, for young people especially, will teach them about diseases and bad intended clients and how to save money and be self-respecting. What's wrong with that?

user-submission@feedback.com
What are you talking about all women getting all the minimum wage and doing menial work. Apply yourself you dumb hooker. My mother alone built herself up from nothing and now owns two restaurants/ hotels.

user-submission@feedback.com
I want to be like the girls on Perfect Girls. Please help me?

user-submission@feedback.com
She has killed her self even when still living. @last it's going to be eternity in hell if she fails to repent.

ndamocelestine@yahoo.com
Truly I don't like whatsoever be the reason why you guys do this. In GODS name PLEASE STOP.

user-submission@feedback.com
She sounds reasonable on some points, but sex doesn't produce materials (food, shelter) which is the basis for us to survive. Without that, how to persuade men pay to her? Prostitution is basically taking advantage of others.

user-submission@feedback.com
She's so dumb she doesn't realize that her "wealth" only exists because males allow it to. The day males get fed up with this kind of abuse of sexual power, her wealth will be confiscated by a typically male army and these whores will be back on the street.

amanda.west38@yahoo.com
I honestly think that being a sex worker is 100% perfectly fine. And if a school for it opened up, I would definatly be in it. Anyway I just agree with everything she said, and she really has some real good points.

user-submission@feedback.com
Where is this school? What is this organization doing now?

user-submission@feedback.com
Jesus will return like a thief in the night, will you be ready?

user-submission@feedback.com
Hilarious. There's a reason why the majority of men and women marry. Nature makes the rules, not a bunch of whores. Get used to this.

jonnyrocket86@ymail.com
I just have to say that the Golden Shower thing sounds really inaccurate. I don't know why you would think it is because men hate you. I like Golden Showers for totally different reasons. To be used as a toilet is humiliating for the man and empowering for the woman, it is an act of domination on her part. I find it really offensive that you assume men with this fetish, such as myself who absolutely love women (even their excrement) can at any time become violent.

user-submission@feedback.com
Very very interesting. I agree with the sex worker when she said most men last 3 minutes. I ca relate to that. I'm all for the school of prostitutes. Theres a wrong way and then theres a right way to pleasure a male. Right on sex worker.

tracipalazzo@hotmail.com
I ran across this interview. Am curious how you get started. I have been giving myself away for years and have toyed with the idea of charging for sex because I feel empty and let down afterwards, and broke. I'm 47, look younger than my age and receive a lot of male attention in all places. How do I initiate being paid?

user-submission@feedback.com
You are an idiot, spending so much time an effort trying to destroy man. What if you succeed? What is the prize? It's hard to be a man, a real man, what if you succed trying to take everything away from men, then they decide to use their physical suppiority. As you say itis all we have, you will be crushed. Instantly.You are an idiot, working as low level prostitute.

Are you not beautiful for high class escort work?Or you don't want to deal with men who can afford to buy you completely?

You are an idiot, doing things for the wrong reasons. And it's exactly the opposite to what men NEED from women for progress,

Yes, you do have sexual superiority; if women want, they can make that known, and that's what they use to crush a man, so in a sense it's abuse. They say mental abuse is worse that physical abuse,

I think your political campaign will be crushed, and your money taken. You are on shakey ground.

Maybe if I was a woman I would be a whoe, but then I believe I would be one of those people, doing it because of negative things that have happened to me, and I wasn't lucky enough to find natural happiness with a natural partner -- that is the saddest thing,

A women can live in her depression being a prostitute, a man can by crushed by this women and live a alone. Yeah, maybe you are better off. Keep it to yourself you fukin idiot. Just make your money and enjoy life, do your job and please men. We are paying for your life style, and you want to crush us. I don't get it.

from Bangalore
I feel really sorry for that sex worke . . ..may god bless her with good thoughts in her next life.

badboy300588@gmail.com
I like prostitution.

 

 

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